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Aside from the historical separation of black people and white people, there are a few barriers you should get out of the way in the present…

just so you're on the same page (and not one from an American history book).

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Men of character, wit and charisma, alongside whom I have spent some of the best times of my life. East and South Asians, Persians, Arabs, Native Americans, Polynesians — all options as far as I was concerned. Then came the night my girlfriend jokingly called me a racist after I rejected a list of possible options, including her brilliant and cute brother, because they just were “not my type,” my longtime code for “melanin-deficient.” We laughed about it. I pride myself on being open and accepting people at face value, yet, consciously or not, I was writing off millions of single and potentially interesting American men simply because they were white.

Yet, until recently, I did not consider white men as romantic prospects. Meanwhile, my social circle is full of black women married to or dating white men.

But make no mistake about it: This is the result of a certain kind of white privilege, not a lack of women of color interested in dating white men or making their love lives public.

So while it should certainly make headlines that Lindsay is Black, her racial preferences — or lack thereof — on the other hand, should not.So, if you're a black woman and you have been with, or are currently with a white man, I'm sure these topics have somehow made their way out of your mouth: If you didn't see this coming, then I'm not sure what to tell you.Black hair is an incredibly versatile and amazing topic, but if you weren't brought up around it, it can be confusing.You prefer the women who will not fight for Blackness on any level, in any way shape or form to the women who make up what I consider to be the best form of Blackness?The women who do not know of the brilliance of Toni Morrison, or the wit of Zora Neale Hurston, or of the tireless work of Alice Walker are the women you prefer?Don't let the title fool you: Pairing happens in all ways… Even this insanely divisive period we're going through in the United States can't reverse the interracial relationship advances that are surely here to stay.

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